(Boradis 2008)
When does crossing over start? It is indeed tough shit being friends to lovers, lovers to friends/enemies. Who initiates the first move? That is usually the hardest to do. Who breaks it off? Who says "I love you" first? Who admits that it's more than just the usual hanging out? Who initiates that first move? Who??? When do you know that the goodnight kiss means more than just that? When do you know that the "I love yous" at the end of the day no longer mean anything? When do you feel strange being with a "friend"? When do we cross that line? Who crosses it first? How do we do it?
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We're all after that smooth transition. We don't want that awkward stage. But sometimes we couldn't avoid that. We can't immediately be friends with that guy who broke our heart. We can't randomnly blurt out "Hey I think I love you more than a friend". Awkward. Awkward. But we just have to do it, even if it's awkward. But of course things are not perfect, there are lovers who can't be friends and friends who can't be lovers. We have to be fine with that.
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In every transition of some sort, there's always a risk. There is no promise that it will be smooth all the time. The world does not work that way.
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When the relationship's so over, somebody has to step up and break it off.
When the relationship's no longer the same, somebody has to break his silence.
It can either be through the words "I love you" or "I am no longer in love with you".
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Sometimes these twilight moments are the sweetest things on earth. (Music in my head: Light my Candle from Rent... HAHA)
It reminds me how a match would light a candle. There's a chase then it lights up. Flame. The fire just consumes the wick.
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