I don't care whether it's actual or constructive notice. Please notify people! Nakakagulat eh. I don't want to see any announcement in the newspaper notifying me of it. Last year somebody did that to me so boo to that person! One big booooooo!
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I remember two of my friends actually gave constructive notices via mail. I was stunned. I don't want my best friends to get married. I hate having to send them off one by one. I fear that I will be left off to be a bridesmaid forever. I never wanted to walk down the aisle with "the man". In my head, I'll be willing to settle to wake up in the morning next to "my man". This isn't about compromising my values. I just "feel" better in that kind of set-up.
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If he breaks the question (Not the "will you marry me kind!") like "Let's get married!!!" one fine morning, then why not? But I will certainly not obsess over it. The marriage thing is more than just a piece of paper so why rush it. Remember: Getting married is not like beating a deadline.
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A friend told me not to get in any relaonstihip so that I could sort out my feelings. I might turn in for some consultation when I am ready. So why am I even talking about marriage? Word got around that our high school classmate is getting married soon. Whatt??? Now we have 3 married classmates. Ooooh, thank god no one in my high school and college barkada is married - yet.
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