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So since bloggers are the new columnists, let me spill my shit on the OGIE-REGINE brouhaha. At one point, I was so kilig that they would make beautiful music together. Their passion for music is just so intoxicating that you can hear it when they are singing. Yes, I'm feeling the love or whatever you call it. I had to watch SOP last Sunday bcos my lola wanted that. I'm usually a hardcore ASAP girl. They wardrobe of the stars and dancers in ASAP are way cooler than the ones from SOPsters are wearing. Too bad I missed ASAP. Well, at least I was able to watch this juicy part. It was Ogie's birthday and Michelle Van Eimeren (the ex-wife) called to greet and talk to Regine. To make the long story short, Michelle was telling (the audience) to accept Regine and Ogie. WHHHAAATTT? Maybe I'm not used to it that in real life the wife gives in to the mistress. I want the mistress to be in the losing end.

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I have no respect for mistresses. Period. I've so much respect for marriage to the point that it may be flawed. [Yes, I do admit that I have many eccentricities and that I am a contradiction.] I'd rather see people living-in-together than get married-for-the-sake-of-it. Labo noh? A friend told me, why go further in naming your relationship for a piece of paper? My point is - it's more than just a piece of paper!!! Well yeah people can commit without being married but marriage is just taking it to a spiritual level (of course I'm talking about marriage here and not just a wedding!). Well, whatever. Why am I talking about marriage. Haha.

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Going back to that Ogie-Regine-Michelle thing, it made me ask a few questions. It even made me think of how SHITTY that conversation was.(Regine spills that she already talked to Michelle like real adults...) WHAT DO YOU TELL EACH OTHER??? For the mistress: what do you tell the wife of your man? Something like I want your husband??? For the wife: what do you tell your kids? Like you're letting another woman just take their "dad" away? For the man: how do you confess that you've been cheating? Pota. You just don't let your husband let go just like that. It looks easy but of course It's so complicated. I know. Diba, when do you say that it's soooooo over? When do you say that this relationship(whatever it is) is already dead? When do you say that it's no longer worth fighting for? Shit, ang dami kong tanong. I need some intellectual conversation with someone.

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Tangena. To be honest, these mistresses haunt me in so many ways. I just don't understand them. My aim is not to understand the world but somehow I want to make sense out of these things.