I've always been an advocate of choice when it comes to life's decisions. I openly shared my views on pre-marital sex that couples could go ahead do it but stay smart and stay protected. It isn't surprising that I approve of "living in" set-ups. But I don't want to try it. I don't know how to deal with intimacy so that explains why sometimes I am so distant. I put up my walls bcos I don't know how to deal with it. I hate conversations in the morning not unless my guy and I live in separate rooms and beds. I hate somebody seeing my straight-out-of-bed hair and my after-shower hair. I hate having to open the door and witness that lovely sight of your man peeing. The list goes on and on. Of course, it's kilig once in awhile to bury your head in somebody's arm or wrap your legs with his other leg, but it stops there. At the end of the day, I still need and want my own personal space.
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Couples should live in first before marriage so that they know how it's like to share one space. It can be likened to a dry-run, a trial or a soft opening period but I think it's essential no matter what society says.
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